Category : Relationship Tips

Pacific Rim

With all the hype in Facebook saying that Pacific Rim is a must watched movie, I “reluctantly” agree to watch it. Despite all the boring & cliche GodzillaXRobocopXTransformer-no-real-story-line, I have to admit that the movie has some good values for us to learn;

1. 2 is better than 1, and 3 will make it merrier. Those Jaegers aren’t designed to be piloted by a single person. You can push yourself to go solo but you’ll get burnt out.
2. A Jaeger’s pilots are connected, they can see and feel each other’s mind and that creates a great synergy that controls the Jaeger. This is of course a perfect recipe of team work. If you can understand my perspective and I can understand yours, we can create a powerful synergy. Also, we’ll avoid unnecessary arguments because I understand you.
3. Memory is the enemy of being in the present. A Jaeger pilot should control their memory and they can’t linger in a particular memory as it will misaligned the system. Just like this life, we can’t keep looking at the past if we want to enjoy the present. While memories can push you to do better, memories could also hold you back – especially if you linger on the good ones. I guess what we need to do is to create new memories.
4. Lastly of course, we need to take care of our world, ensuring that we leave a healthy and liveable world for the next generation.

Ookays, my last point was so absurd.. and even the other points. I can’t concentrate writing with 2 AC engineers here at the apartment :[

I’ve decided…

I’ve decided to love you no matter what… It is not about feeling or circumstance… Love is a decision. My life is better with you besides me… I want to wake up in the morning and learn to love you in a new way… every morning… by God’s grace.

I love you… no matter what.

http://newspring.cc/series/adamandeve/four-things-every-man-must-know-about-a-woman/

Firstly, thank you…

It is a really inspiring and encouraging sermon. I learn. a lot.

1. I will treat you as God’s own daugther

2. I will stand up and lead this relationship in God

3. It’s not what I say… but how I say it…

4. I will pursuit you intentionally … not accidentally

Jess, I will learn to understand you the rest of my life. I will have a close relationship with God who is your heavenly Father.

All this time, I am looking for guidance to lead this relationship… I am looking for someone to answer my questions… I am looking for mentor in relationship… Now I realize that I (we) have God, our Father in heaven…. that I can ask all the questions and He will direct me… personally…

Also, we have our parents in this world… I shouldn’t look for answers elsewhere…

I love you… always