Lead 360, The Escape & Farewell

Our last 2 weekends were probably the most full-on weekends we ever had – or at least, I ever had.

Fri, 27 April: driving test & The Escape rehearsal
Praise the Lord I passed my test :) and even better, I got my full license without having a prove letter from the Consulate.
And that Parcel rehearsal… oh man, it was a long one but it was totally worth it. Had chance to meet Meike and hear the awesome vision she has for her new church in Perth, also got chance to know Hansen – have never talked with him previously. Parcel is a really great time to know more people. Awesome!

Sat, 28 April: Lead 360 at MECC
A day seminar/workshop with Rohan Dredge and it was great. I appreciate the time I had to think about myself & what it is that I actually want to do. I’m yet to discover fully and specifically what I want to achieve. Probably we can work together on this :) oh anyway, we’re not busy, we’re full! We know exactly that what we’re doing has a great purpose and for a greater vision.

Sun, 29 April: The Escape at Storey Hall
This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it! (Ps. 118:24). Looking back to the end of last year when we had our meeting with Ocep, Jos and K’Tom at that small coffee shop in Toroonga, I can only say that God is good. Everything that we’ve planned has come together and I’m amazed with the result of The Escape. Some things I learned from The Escape:
• Believe in the concept and impart your belief to the team
I heard some negative/unsupportive remarks about the concept & theme of this Parcel when we first started. Yet, I chose to have faith that this is what God wanted us to do and I tried to share this faith with Adhi & Val. By grace, The Escape turned out well.
• Small things matter
Probably Parcel is the ‘grandest’ and the most expensive investment that our church has. The amount of time, effort and money that we invested in Parcel make so grand. However in The Escape I learned that an event doesn’t need to be THAT HUGE to win over God’s heart. What important is our hearts and the small things we do day by day.
• Us – compromising vs. understanding
Remember how we had arguments about meeting on Tuesdays, discipleship on Tuesdays, etc.? Life is hard enough without us arguing about our dating times and I’m proud because we managed to overcome the last few months. I learned about compromising vs. understanding. Compromising is when we reluctantly agree on something we don’t like. Understanding, on the other hand, is agreeing on something we don’t like because we know exactly the ‘why’ of that thing. Probably more on this later.. hehe

Fri, 4 May: new people at cell
It’s so exciting to have new people at cell. My cell has a history of people jumping to other cells because they felt disconnection and people who left for good. God is good though, he sent 3 people to my cell last Friday. None of them coming to church on Sunday though.. should have a strategy to get them rooted in the cell. Lol

Sat, 5 May: Fafa’s housewarming, MPC Olympic, Dewi & Christy’s farewell
A super moving around day that reminded me how good it is to actually mingle with people. It enjoyed watching you playing basketball. Très cool!
That day we also had an Indo day: Nusantara for lunch and Nelayan for dinner. Super yummy!

Sun, 6 May: Christy’s testimony, I Do class and The Escape review
Christy’s testimony made me realize (or to be exact, remember) that what’s fulfilling for me is to see people grow and that they acknowledge it themselves. I’m really proud to see Christy standing on the stage, telling people of how God has worked wonderfully in her life when she gave away her ego and pride. Isn’t it what we all need to do? We’re most powerful when we make ourselves vulnerable in God. The feeling I had when listening to Christy & people’s feedback during Parcel review was very similar with the feeling I had last year at The Composer celebration night. I love listening to people acknowledging their achievements – something that we rarely do as Asians. Furthermore, to see someone accomplished new things and be proud of it is just fulfilling.
I’m glad we’re on the same page about this. I can’t wait for the more opportunities to build people and get them over the line (not stealing from Rohan here..)

Anyway, let’s move forward & pray more for our future :)

xx

Questions to Ask When Preparing for Marriage

I put it here so I know where to find it..

Questions to Ask When Preparing for Marriage.

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never stop

It’s been a year and almost 2 months Jessica and I have been together. The last 2 days were the hardest part for me personally. Suddenly, Jessica mentioned that she couldn’t respect me anymore and she’s sick of me… I was totally surprise about it. I didn’t know that my actions and what I said her hurt. I didn’t know where I went wrong. I reacted in-appropriately.

Today is the 3rd day, I sit down and think over it. Where did I go wrong? I think that’s the problem… I stop pursuing her… I entered my comfort zone in this relationship… I am taking the responsibilities to lead this relationship… I physically being with her but my mind is in my work or my personal life matters. I become impolite and take this relationship for granted.

What happened in the last 2 days taught me about love once again… that love is patient, not easily angry, kind, not proud, not demands its own way… love always hope, always persevere, always endures, and never give up.

I will never give up on us, Jess… no matter how hard it is… I will always fight… and I want you to fight with me… together…

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mid-Jan 2012

what could be better to start our diaries for this year other than saying ‘HAPPY 2012!’ ?

happy new year Phodi.. semoga tahun ini kita semakin maju dalam pekerjaan dan pelayanan.
Seperti yang kemarin diingetin sama Kak Inge, God has planned everything so we don’t need to worry. Everything will be beautiful in its time :)

xx

P.S. I decided to compile my dailythanksgiving here..

Day1of365: Salatiga-Jakarta roadtrip. Thankful for a beautiful & naturally rich home country <3 Day2of365: thankful for a day out with parents Day3of365: thank you for the present & the afternoon, @phodi Day4of366: thankful for old friends with whom I can still share the same 'old laugh' Day5of366: in a way or another, thank you that I'm still my parents' piccola principessa Day6of366: yeay for a complete family getaway after 1.5years separated!! Day7of366: thankful for a safe trip to a pretty city Day8of366: thankful for yummy 'exotic' fruits this holiday season! Durian, longan, rambutan, mango, mangosteen.. :9 Day9of366: thank u for weekend with @Jeremyaprillio and for a shopping heaven :D Day10of366: thank you for my driver so I don't need to worry about Jkt's traffic Day11of366: thank u for @yenitajenne and her beautiful heart. <3 u girl! Day12of366: crosswords night with mom :D thanks to opa & mom's addiction, I'm kinda addicted as well Day13of366: thankful for a full on self pampering day :D Day14of366: putting cigs & alcohol aside, thank you for fun & crazy boy friends. boys will be boys.. Day15of366: Adios Jakarta! Adios PiMi. Thank you for everything <3 Day16of366: thank you for a friendly neighbor on the plane and for a beautiful Melbourne summer! Hello Melbourne! Day17of366: thank u for a reminder of your promise Day18of366: thank you for cellies! :)

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Words of encouragement for the week:

“Don’t put yourself in a box… the reality is, leadership builds up as you grow… and we rarely see someone as young has such confidence in the workplace” (CFO Scope, 15 Dec 2011)

01.12.11

A year has passed since I stated my feeling to you…
A year is a long time to realize how I actually feel about you…
yes…
after 365 days… now I know that I always falling in love with you…
though there are some days are not easy… not always smile and agreement fill our days…
yet I know that I want always to be with you…
Promise that I will always try my best to express my love to you…

I love you…
always…

(“,)

Thank you for being with me.